You're the real MVP Maddie.
Stop with the gender talk for goodness sake! It's the Shadow King he doesn't even have a freakin body. His "sexuality" isn't in question because he doesn't have one. His attitude towards David is to cause chaos and to screw with his head or someone around him ie Sidney. Anything it says or does cannot be trusted or relied upon. Faruq may have started life as a man but that ended the moment he shed his body, and that was probably hundreds of years ago. Shadow King is the name of an entity now.
Now... Who's taking bets that all these characters, Sidney, Ptonomy, Kerry, Walter, Ms Bird etc, are all personalities?