Originally Posted by
K. Jones
This I see as the easiest work around. Because Hippolyta and Phil are elder stateswomen of the Amazons, which means that even though they're the ones who broke the chains of male Mediterranean hegemony or whatever, male-ocracy, they're also the ones who were the most steeped in and surrounded by it. Like, they resented it the most and are the ones who liberated the Amazons from patriarchal concepts and ideas, but at the same time, after growing up in those patriarchal societies, some of the old habits die hard and the world they create is for their younger sisters and their children to enjoy freedoms in, but they're kind of older and just want to marry one another.
But lest I get too complicated into theoretical regressive traditions and who might be invested in those concepts; I know loads of poly people who are presently or have been in extended monogamous relationships, because you love who you love and sometimes that partner wants to keep it simple. Phillipus and Hippolyta are military commanders, so keeping things simple and efficient might appeal to them. But moreover, another trait of polyeros people would be you know, pretty widely open marriages. Perhaps they are married with fidelity and monogamous and not interested in binding themselves to other women because they're each other's one and only special someone ... but that doesn't mean they don't swing.
Anyway, on Steve Trevor;
As a guy reading this book, a mostly heteronormative guy, who relates very well to Diana and Barbara and Etta and Sasha without any problem, it's still important to me to have a much more directly 1:1 character to relate to in Steve. Steve also serves an important function because it's important this book always gives us a stand-up example of a man who is a heroic, good person (contrast against all the patriarchal awful examples; this book requires a male Ally and Steve is historically the Wonder Woman "Good Guy Male" character.)
As a writer it's really important to me to incorporate holistic publication histories for comics characters and Steve is as important to Wonder Woman's lore as Lois Lane is to Superman's. So it's important for me to see him serve in his original capacity as love interest, but it's more important to see him serve in his original capacity as "best friend", because Diana needs a male best friend too, and it only just happens to happen that there is such a Venn diagram overlap between "lover" and "best friend" a lot of the time. More than that, jettisoning or radically altering the nature of Steve - which is precisely what happened post-Crisis, is kind of an affront to a guy who should be the core feature of a Wonder Woman book that provides a male positive role model to young girls reading, women, or boys and men who need a more familiar entry point. He's absolutely vital. A Wonder Woman book without Steve (and Etta) is like ... well, I was going to say a Batman book without Alfred and then I realized Batman has no healthy female relationships. Like a Superman book without Lois and Jimmy. Or like Sherlock without the Watsons.
Bonus to that: a lot of remedial work has been done to "fix" Steve, starting with Johns using him "okay" in Justice League, but particularly I was thinking of Larry Hama's very short 2-part stint during Convergence. Plus the pure nature of a modern soldier meeting a superheroic mythological warrior is just such a magical concept in the first place. Plus, jettisoning Steve has always been problematic because all the other male love interests that ever come into the picture are always "Pseudo-Steves". "Steve-Lites". Trevor Barnes and Nemesis are the two most obvious ones. It's like replacing Lois Lane with a woman named Lane Barnes (by the way she's ALSO a reporter!), or hooking Superman up with a tangentially related career woman who just happens to be C-List DC heroine who looks a lot like a younger Lois.
Anyway, still postulating and talking about this issue, which means, good damn comics.