Most leaders of The Avengers aren't Spider-Man or star in something where Spider-Man is the lead (unless you count ASM, kinda).
I'd rather not see Peter lead The Avengers, because I don't think there are many writers who would do him justice in that role or would even put him there to begin with.
Same here. At this point, he's still got more credibility than damn near anyone else who's still around and hasn't been Cosmic Cubed into a perversion of themselves and everything they stand for, except for maybe Janet van Dyne. Hmm, come to think of it, Janet and Spidey could co-lead if they could figure out how to work around the "wasps prey on spiders" thing.
As for adult Spidey not being able to beat Cap back in the original Civil War, he didn't want to beat Cap or even fight him, for that matter. That was the major deciding factor; greater fighting skill on Cap's part aside, Peter didn't even want to fight someone he respected so deeply and wholeheartedly, and almost his entire inner monologue was about the cognitive dissonance he felt from being on the wrong side of Steve Rogers. If your head and heart aren't in a fight, you're bound to lose that fight regardless of how much stronger and faster you are than your opponent.
On the subject of Spider-Man and his continued relation with the Avengers, I figure as long as he finally gets the credit that he's due and stops being treated as the annoying kid everyone tries to tolerate because he's coming from a good place and he's trying so hard to impress them, I'm fine with him being an Avenger. In the MCU, I think the character arc for Spider-Man is him realizing that he can stand on his own two feet and rely on his own abilities, skills, and judgment to solve his problems instead of looking for guidance and approval from Tony Stark, which would be a fine, if not perfect, resolution to the plot of Homecoming.
Last edited by Huntsman Spider; 05-27-2017 at 03:14 PM.
The spider is always on the hunt.
Hopefully going forward we'll have Peter in a less-teched out suit of his own making and not having Tony Stark involved in practically every facet of his life and probably the most promoted part promotion of his solo movie.
Or needing Tony Stark to have to tell him to "be better" or that he's not fit to wear a Spider-Man suit like he's some kind of sidekick.