An educator! Thank you for your service then, good sir and/or ma'am!
Much respect for teachers. Hell of a tough gig.
Yup, that would give you a very different outcome than my wider consideration. Makes sense to me now, how you got to that opinion. To that end, yeah Bendis changed what was "established" character, but did he "change" it, or just return it to something closer to historic norms? Lit analysis with comics have always struck me as a weird thing; changing cultural norms across decades influence characterization, reboots and retcons changing history. I mean, Rebirth/Reborn Clark was supposed to be post-Crisis Clark inserted into the new canon, but surrounded by a different DCU history, with his own history including a ten year old who had "always been there" we must ask, is it still post-Crisis Clark? Can it be, with that many differences? These questions are why comic analysis has become such a fascinating hobby for me. But I digress.....
I don't think I'm the only one with a personal bias influencing my viewpoints.
Bendis' idea that Jon has parallels to a special needs kid is, I think, valid....if an odd way to look at things. For me, it boils down to a fairly simple metric; did the Kents clearly love and support each other? You must remember the trite marital melodrama of the late 90's and earlier 00's; if that is avoided and the Kents remain firm in their devotion to each other, then I'm usually satisfied. And while Bendis applied non-traditional family structures to the Kents, I don't think there was ever any real doubt that they remained happy and true to their marriage. I don't ask for much more than that, and an assurance that both characters aren't made less than they are. Bendis did a poor job writing Lois, and I get that some people don't appreciate the non-traditional trappings, but I think it can't be argued that Lois and Clark were anything but deeply in love and supportive of each other, even if some of us may not care for how that was expressed, or even just for the writing and dialogue itself (which I'd agree with).
Oh that's mostly just me being hyperbolic. I like to put ridiculous and over-the-top claims in my posts sometimes, just to see if anyone reacts.
I know that Rockwell Americana did exist for some people. My mother grew up like that, actually.
And if we disagree on things, then that's great. That's where the quality debates and discussions come from! An opinion is only as strong as the arguments against it after all. And I'm told that my posts can seem more....intense....than I intend, so please take them with a grain of salt; I assure you I'm not half as inflexible or arrogant as I might seem. Stupid text not properly conveying tone and intent....