Originally Posted by
FUBAR007
Clearly, you've never read the original Phoenix storyline, the Dark Phoenix Saga, the first few years of X-Factor, nor the Lobdell/Nicieiza era, specifically The Adventures of Cyclops and Phoenix mini. Scott and Jean were far, far more than a usual example of high school sweethearts. They were soulmates with a love that saved the universe. Their relationship was a romantic ideal. It was never meant to be realistic or down-to-earth. Griping about its believability or lack thereof is absurd and colossally misses the point. That's like complaining that super-powers aren't realistic.
That said, the notion that passion is the purpose of marriage or even the appropriate measure of success for a long-term relationship is extremely shallow and juvenile. Passion does not equal love. Neither does sex. Neither does adventure or new age-y, pop psychology claptrap about "personal growth." Marriage is about commitment. Partnership. Devotion. Mutual acceptance. Responsibility. HONOR. "Personal growth" is the responsibility of oneself, not one's spouse.
Morrison didn't understand that. That's why he couldn't grasp Scott and Jean's relationship, and that's partly why he trashed it.