Originally Posted by
Korath
Ok, so because It seems that "real fans" have a hard time grasping it, I'll write it down. Rebirth isn't Flashpoint. It was never advertised as a reboot of New 52, and except for Superman and WW, it isn't at all. So, the comparison between Superman-Lois relationship's erasure in 2011 and the Superman-Diana's one in 2016-2017 is fallacious.
In the first case, a multiverse died, another was birthed and the heroes (and villains) went in other directions. It was one of the greatest strength of the New 52 (except for hardcore "fans" for whom it sometimes seems that even the smallest deviation compared to their image of a character is absolute treason and must be erased, purged, burned and forgotten) that iconic characters developed in some different ways. It was most obvious for Superman and Wonder Woman (and D.C. passed on the opportunity of developing Cyborg back in 2011 outside of JL books) but all the main characters benefited from it. Some things worked, other didn't. But it was all a new multiverse, with its rules and its characters.
Rebirth was not advertised as the return of the old Multiverse, it was openly disclaimed that it wasn't a reboot. More optimism could have been ingrained into the New 52's characters if they had wanted to (and in the present case, both Superman and Wonder Woman and their relationship could have had this optimism, without destroying their relationship, for instance.
To sum it up : Superman and Lois's relationship wasn't rendered non-canon or erased by Flashpoint. It had happened in another universe. But in the current situation, D.C. is willingly saying that what we saw, what we bought and what we supported during New 52 never existed. Basically, if you own SM/WW, you own a fan-fiction in a comics' guise. It is offensive, doubly so when D.C. isn't sending a message to the merchandising industry to stop produce SM/WW goodies, or the mobile games, where this relationship is still used to milk money out of casual costumers.
For all those reasons, the current situation regarding the relationship between SM/WW is far more offensive that what happened in 2011, because it shows how hypocritical D.C is. Or cowardly, because they refused to reboot their line, but they erase bits and bits as they please. That's the problem.
Not that I expect "real Superman fans" to understand it, of course.