Peter Parker's ongoing series have only been written by a handful of female writers over the years.
Of the top of my head the only ones I can recall are
Ann Nocenti who has the largest number of Spidey stories to her name (though they mostly suck)
Kelly Sue Deconnick who's written at least one issue of Avenging Spider-Man which co-starred Carol Danvers
Diane Duane who wrote a trilogy of novels in the 1990s
Fiona Avery who wrote a few ASM issues and and a few other things
Sara Barnes who has the infamous distinction of penning Sins Remembered
Hannah Blumenreich who's written to my knowledge just one out of continuity back up strip and some popular fan comics (I'll still count her despite not working on 616)
And Louise Simonson, who's probably the female Spider-Man writer with the best quality (though not highest quantity) work to her name. Putting aside her awesome X-Factor and Superman work, she did a great ASM Annual which introduced Alistair Smythe (who's iconic to the 1994 cartoon generation) and also penned Web of Spider-Man #1 which apart from being only the third ever Spider-Man title ever, contains the iconic bell tower scene where Spidey frees himself from the alien costume.
It ain't much. I really can't think of any other female Spider-Man writers, at least not any who've worked on a 616 Peter Parker Spider-Man solo book. I'm sure there must be some who've done AU stories with a version of Spider-Man, or done other series which might've guest starred Spider-Man.
So what female writers from inside or outside the comic book industry do you think would be a good fit as a main writer of a 616 Peter Parker Spider-Man solo book?
The only one I can think of is maybe G. Willow Wilson because of her Ms. Marvel work but then again that stuff might qualify her more for a teenage Peter Parker, not the adult experienced one we have now.