Disagree.
Based on what I've been hearing... F4 has the worst luck. X-men is barely watchable... The Amazing Spiderman Franchise was awesome!
Honestly, I don't even begin to understand the complaints people have about Garfield. He was the epitome of a teenager... and his SPIDER-MAN was the best one ever filmed... The quips and the wisecracks were everything that Tobey's was missing.
His Spidey was unlikeable? He was mocking villains and protecting kids from neighborhood bullies?!?! Fixing their science projects... How is this unlikable?!?
My opinion is that people are Jaded. The IDEA of rebooting the franchise when A) we just HAD an origin not that long ago... and B) It was just done to keep the rights away from Marvel ruining an avengers crossover turned fans off. Personally I hated the costume redesign in the first one... though the material looked better then Raimi's... The second however? Was REALLY fantastic.
And while the reviewers disliked it... Worldwide audiences don't appear to. Apparently it had a budget of $200,000,000 and worldwide made over $700,000,000 which is more than part 1 made... so the revenue is going UP...
I DON'T think you have anything to worry about.