Originally Posted by
Huntsman Spider
Rape is a serious problem that does happen to men, too, whether at the hands of women or even by other men. Writing off what was done to Cyclops as an excuse for him to cheat does a disservice to men who were raped. Hell, comics in general have a serious issue with depicting rape as either something for shock/drama value, to heighten the despicability of the villain performing the act and thus motivate the (usually male) hero to royally kick his @$$ if not outright kill the son of a b****, or as completely inconsequential because some sci-fi/fantasy mechanic like mind control, illusions, shapeshifting, or body theft was involved in facilitating the act or because it happened to a male character at the hands of a female character.
Look at Green Arrow over in DC: actually raped while delirious from fever by Shado, but treated as though he consciously chose to betray Black Canary and actively slept with another woman and turned into a womanizer afterwards to justify or double down on this mischaracterization of what happened to him. Batman, depending on whether you abide by the original story or Grant Morrison's version, was drugged and then raped by Talia al Ghul so that she could have his child and raise said child to be the ultimate heir of the League of Assassins. Nightwing was raped by a creepy stalker vigilante named Tarantula, and the writer of that comic insisted on calling it nonconsensual sex rather than admitting it was rape.
Going back to Marvel, we do have Cyclops as mentioned by dragonmp93, Captain Britain (who was once held prisoner with the intent of making him a sex slave, even if it wasn't said out loud), Wonder Man (who was ambiguously assaulted by a maddened Scarlet Witch way back in the day, though the jury is apparently still out on whether or not it was supposed to be heavily implied rape), and probably others I haven't thought of or recalled yet. (Maybe someone else can.) All in all, comics have had to work to shed some incredibly backwards ideas and attitudes as they've progressed through the decades, though one of the most persistent of those backwards ideas and attitudes is how rape is perceived and treated, though in light of how those ideas and attitudes still persist in real life, perhaps I shouldn't be so surprised.