The message being that two people of equal physical power and superficial beauty who are privileged in the exact same ways are “more suited” to each other than a man loving a woman committed to truth without those physical abilities. The message that Lois is “inferior” to Clark and to Diana because she’s “merely human” and doesn’t have those powers? The message that only heroes who wear capes matter and are truly equals? The message that women are only valuable and inspiring if they have superpowers? That “equality” is that shallow? That “message” is terrible. It doesn’t really matter if it resonates with you. There are a LOT of crappy messages that resonate with people in this world. It’s ok to like problematic things but don’t act like you’ve found some deeper meaning to the franchise that the rest of us are “blind” to because you have not.
And, again, you can try all you want to try and strip Lois of her place in this 80 year old story by referring to her as “ancient” and calling it “dumbness” (which isn’t a word btw) but it doesn’t change that the consistent act of trying to remove Lois of her rightful place in this story as the only other person to debut in Action #1 is misogyny. You don’t have to ::like:. Her. No one said you had to. But that doesn’t actually mean that she’s the one that needs to go away. Not when it’s her story too.
And I disagree that Superman/WW has proven it could survive as long as Lois and Clark has. Because you are talking about the complete break down of two separate franchises with two, frankly, different messages. Wonder Woman was not created to be the female :
artner:: for Superman. You mistake her creation as a female ::analogue:: of Superman designed to fill the same narrative space with a vastly differing message about power with contrast. These two characters do not compliment and contrast each other enough long term to sustain what Lois and Clark have sustained. And it does Wonder Woman zero favors to want her tied to a man’s myth like that long term when she has her own story to tell that has absolutely nothing to do with and is often straight up hindered by the presence of a Kryptonian with equal physical strength.
Does this mean you can’t like what you like? Of course not. Knock yourself out with fanfic and whenever and the occasional AU the way millions of other shippers do. But you aren’t going to make a convincing argument that Lois Lane is what’s “holding back Superman” because the numbers not only do not support that but no one has time for that kind of blatant misogyny directed at either Lois or Wonder Woman.