Originally Posted by
comradepitrovsky
I mean, I think it's impossible to really answer this question? Because Emma hasn't forgiven herself. She's a deeply, deeply broken individual, and it's always been clear that despite the whole british ice queen affectation she's both clearly regretted a lot of her actions. Yeah, she falls back into that role again and again, but that's a way of reacting to the fact that everytime she does open up, someone gets hurt. She's watched her students die in front of her, her family, her kids, her husband in all but name, everyone that she cares about had died or turned on her. So when she is faced with the choice of opening up again, or of hardening her heart and playing the ice queen, she picks the easy option. It's not the right choice, but it's one we can understand.
Emma, given her choice of anything and everything, when she got her greatest wish fulfilled wasn't a power broker or a monarch, she wasn't a evil genius. She was a healer and a teacher. I think that's revealing.
So, um, should she be forgiven? Yes, probably, but there's a difference between forgiveness and forgetfulness, and forgiveness and understanding.
I also find it deeply uncomfortable that some people are attacking Emma for her choices of appearance in a time when she was obviously being groomed by an older man. A lot of what modern Emma is has to be put at the feet of Sebastian Shaw, and I think given current events we can have some understanding there.