Here is a good example of what I am referring to:
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/TIw0lDrksf9...gFE0rMQh=s1600
Notice how she feels a wrongess about them in the storm before she even tries to control it. In other words, she is still connected to it and her environment. When she reaches out to try and control it, it resists her. Again, she is still connected.
Later, she outright takes control over it, doubles its power, and turns it back upon Shaman, who created the blizzard to begin with.
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/BBc4bPi9zg0...oF3hODa-=s1600
She is still connected to said forces, but gets resistance, so uses her strength of will and her enormous power levels to overcome the resistance. This is what happened in the Weather God scenarios he brought up.