Originally Posted by
Daniel22
I see what you mean, and understand where you are coming from. We just have a fundamental difference in the way in which we approach and view the movies. You have a strong feeling of what is and what isn't Parker, how he should act, and don't enjoy much coloring outside of those lines, it seems. You have a picture of Spidey in your head, and don't care for anything else, perhaps? I don't have those feelings, or at least only in the slightest. I don't feel like there is one way to portray Spidey. I think of him as inspiration and raw material for creators to make stories out of. I look at it like an item of food: one chef might grill it, another might sauté it, while another might fry it. They are all equally valid to me. Neither of our viewpoints are right or wrong, just different.
It seems like Spidey, moreso than any other character, has more fans that adhere to your way of thinking. I feel like I hear and read so many more "That is not Peter Parker"-type comments than I do about any other character. I think the vast majority of fans have their One True Version of Spidey in their heads and dislike mostly anything else. I believe other characters get more leeway from fans.
Does anyone else feel that way? Are Spidey fans the most rigid, "Peter Parker is only and always THIS way" group? (I think it's relevant to this thread because, clearly, most posters have very strong and unwavering views on he should FOR SURE be married/not married... MY Peter would never make a deal with a demon.. etc.)