As someone who loathes OMD and picks his Spidey stuff to utterly avoid it when possible, I'm pretty sick of the discussion around it; it's been over a decade, it's been hashed to death, pretty much everyone has been grounded in their opinions now (for, against, don't care, etc.). I literally think there's nothing more to discuss about it and that it's a trouble magnet. That said, if there was a major change (Marvel decided to remarry the Parkers, they wrote a story that very specifically addressed the topic, there was a major interview with a Marvel person that shed new light on things, etc.), that would create a scenario where there would be a "legitimate" reason to talk about it and a ban on it would make for a tricky situation.
Not sure any of the vote options fit my opinion on how it should be handled; I'd say no to banning the topic, but I do think that stricter moderation to keep things getting out of hand would be good. That said, can't users create new "no OMD" threads, anyways under the current setup?