Originally Posted by
dswynne
The funny thing is that when the Arisa Rrab character was first introduced, you could date/marry a girl of 13 years in the United States.
But let's play "Devil's Advocate" for a moment: given that Arisa's race has a long lifespan, did Hal do anything wrong? Sure, to her people, Arisa is a teenager, but she is chronologically three times older than your average human adult. Taking things further, what if Hal was in a situation where he was dating a member of a species where the average lifespan is eight years old (like Star Trek's Ocampa), where two years old is equivalent to twenty years old in human terms. Would Hal be wrong in dating two year old from another species?
My point is that we're getting too wrapped up in a discussion that is ultimately meaningless. As far as I am concerned, Hal dated a teenager (whom he didn't know was a teenager at the time), thought otherwise, broke up with her, and moved on. That's life. And, as I stated before, at the time of Arisa's introduction, it was legal to do so, and was not as scandalous and as criminal as it is today. We and society have changed, and now find such a scenario as inappropriate (and just as inappropriate as the "Pie Face" references in GL, too).
With that, we can move on without thought and shame, IMO.