I agree this can be a problem (shoutout to Demi Lovato lol), but I don't think it's more of a nuisance compared to actual problematic behavior. I'm a big proponent of calling out things that are harmful, but I try to do it on the side of... I guess gentle enlightenment? (I know that sounds very holier than thou, but hopefully people get what I mean.) I still fumble a lot with some issues and I appreciate being checked so I don't do it again. I just wish people wouldn't dismiss people's feelings so quickly.
Anyway, back on topic!