I'm sort of appalled that crushing Zod's hand is worth mentioning, but not
mind-wiping Lois! I mean I know I just said this recently, possibly earlier in this very thread, but DC's most controversial event was about whether it was okay for C-List heroes to mind-wipe a
murderer rapist, and yet how many fans just let Superman himself off the hook for mind-wiping
an innocent woman who trusts him implicitly? It's totally morally depraved! I'm not even going into the question of whether it makes his sex with her into retroactive date-rape or whatever, because I fundamentally think that either way he's totally violated the most basic right a person can have,
to the woman he loves, and he's convinced himself that it's for her own good?! How paternalistic and condescending can you get? Lois would
never have agreed to that! In regards to Zod, I am utterly unconcerned with the morality of light-to-moderately injuring a would-be planetary dictator. I mean it's not like Superman took away Zod's powers and then snapped his neck or something.
Okay, rant over.
Superman I's pretty okay at least. It'll never be my favorite Superman movie and I'll probably always consider it overrated, but I don't hate anything about it with that same withering passion as Superman II; I think at least two or three elements are excellent, and ultimately I can easily see why it's so popular. Certainly I see why Reeve is so popular as an actor. He's phenomenal!
Meanwhile, I think that both the TV and film versions of Superman run into a pretty severe problem, which is that they're overly attached to Lois. In
Supergirl, Superman says that he doesn't know if he could choose between letting Lois die and saving the day, never mind that one of the things that his most visible influence,
Superman the Movie gets absolutely right is that first of all, he'd
totally let Lois die to save millions of people, and second of all, it's a
false choice and he can save her anyway (never mind that it used a bogus plot device to do that). Also, characters on
Supergirl, including himself, compare him to Kara unfavorably, ie "Supergirl is better than Superman", not different, not better at some things but worse at others, but actually totally better as both a character, as a person and as a super-hero in basically all respects. That's crap, I don't
care if she's the one the show's named after.
Meanwhile, in the movies, Kal's relationship with Lois is for the most part great, certainly the best in any live action movie- but there's that awkward unavoidable implication that if she died, he'd start working for Darkseid and murder a helpless man for revenge. Yikes. Not great. Honestly, that's only been done well once, in
Brave New Metropolis. Lois is a key part of the Superman mythos, and I could see arguing that he'd give up being Clark or something without her, but not that he'd go crazy and take over the world.
I kind of like
the one where he moves to space and becomes Maxima's consort after Lois dies, personally.