Not really. Kylo Ren's injuries in TFA interfered with his use of telekinesis, weakening them (TFA junior novelization). As we saw in TLJ, when fully healthy, Rey can't out-pull him. Rey is able to use telekinesis completely untrained (Star Wars Made Easy), however it is a skill that can be self-taught (Heir to the Jedi) and used untrained (Rebels, "Droids in Distress"). Also, Force-sensitives having a Force skill they can innately use is common (Ahsoka)
Kylo fought her twice in TFA; he curb-stomped her on Takodana and came close to winning on Starkiller Base (however he wasn't trying to kill her), but his injuries and Rey's Force boost worked lead to him being defeated due to the unique situations. He didn't fight her at all in TLJ (aside from the Force tug of war).
All the skills Rey uses have been shown to be used by untrained newbies at one time or another in the franchise, even by ones implied to have lower medi-chlorian counts (remember, TLJ shows that Rey is above average in potential) or as early level skills. Also, most of what Luke learned between the movies was self-taught. The movies also consistently show that she doesn't do well against highly experienced Force users on the top of their game.
As noted before, nothing Rey has done (except maybe the mind trick) are unprecedented first-time skills and she's an above-average user.
The only time she did that was when the user was handicapped. At all other times, she's at their mercy.
Not quite.