IMO the thing with men taking responsibility is, in the old days, their gf/wife would handle all that, but now women don't put up with that as much anymore, so these old-fashioned men are losing out, but instead of reflecting on their own behavior, they lash out at feminism, and these YouTubers give them license to do so.
Aside from that, the idea of men being "tough all the time" is an old-fashioned notion feminism generally doesn't support, yet guys like Peterson fail to mention that