Originally Posted by
Steeler53
I really disagree with this. The issue with Spider-Man and the MCU, is that Peter Parker is his own person (not just Spider-Man), who simply does not fit in with much of the MCU. A perfect example is with The Avengers. He is not a 24/7 Super Hero like Captain America, nor does he really like the job of being Spider-Man, he does it because it is the right thing to do. But at the same time, he refuses to sacrifice his humanity (and that includes his sense of humor), and for that reason he does not gain the respect of most members of the MCU (an exception is the FF, because he has a lot of Johnny and Ben character traits in him, which is something that obviously Reed and Sue are familiar with, so he has a different kind of relationship with them, then does any other member of the MCU).
As far as a Super-Heroine is concerned, they would be more into "Saving The World" then staying @ home with Pete (even Natasha foots that bill), we see this perfectly with Felicia Hardy (despite NOT being a heroine). Just like Gwen Stacy, Betty Brant, Carlie Cooper, Liz Allen, or anyone else, could not deal with Pete risking his life, for sometimes very ungrateful people, instead of staying @ home. Of course, there is one person who can handle both sides of the character (the Spider & The Man), that is his True Soul Mate, Mary Jane