Hello CBR 2.0! I guess I'll just have to do like May and Peter did in this movie and try to let go of the past. The old forums will be missed.
That said, I enjoyed ASM2 for the most part. It was a bit of a bummer the way they honored the Gwen storyline, but it was cool to see them actually go there. It's amazing that a 50 year old story can still have such an impact. And I was surprised to hear people in the theater who didn't see it coming. I enjoyed the villains, I felt they each got sufficient screen time. I was intrigued by their take on the Green Goblin, but I'm also still adjusting to it (especially what they did with Norman). I enjoyed the performance of the actor who played Harry, but for me, Norman will always be the one true Goblin.
Although I prefer the Webb movies to the Raimi trilogy, I agree with Slade Wilson that the reboot suffers some as it tries to avoid doing what's already been done. It all seems questionable to me... They can rehash the same old Uncle Ben or Harry plots, but they shy away from Norman Osborn, Jonah Jameson, and Mary Jane. I like what we've gotten, but I can't help but notice what's missing. I understand the criticisms that this film's plot was already overstuffed, but that's what makes the serialized comics and tv shows so much better: the storylines and characters have more room to breathe.
I wonder, if they had dropped the stuff about Peter's parents, would the plot have still held up? We might have lost some themes of predestination, legacy and inheritance, and the parallelism/contrast between Peter and Harry, but I'm not sure that's what the movie was about anyway. I think the movie's winning themes had more to do with hope, mortality, and revenge, and it might have done better to stay focused on the present day characters. For example, some have said that Electro didn't tie in thematically with the other characters, but he kind of did in the sense that he put all his hope in Spider-Man, and his eventual disappoint led him to seek revenge (and the same happened to Harry). Meanwhile, Gwen was Spidey's encouragement to never give up hope, and to continue inspiring hope in others.
One random observation: As of the end of ASM2, Peter has received at least 3 messages from beyond the grave (not to mention a certain haunting). Is that normal for grieving persons?