Reminds me that there was also a story, think it was in Marvel Knight Spider-Man, which someone mentioned that Spidey didn't realize how much Felicia still cared for him, so yeah, guess that's consistent.
I think PS4 Spidey has a dialogue with Aunt May talking about some older woman that Peter dated, which Peter replied with something like "She's not that much older!, not stated that it was Felicia, but very likely it was lol.
in Spectacular, I remember reading that she's supposed to be 19 (Honestly was thinking she'd be in her 20's lol), so if Peter there was 15 (Default age when he becomes Spidey), then she's 4 years older.
Also, we have this page in Black Cat#3:
https://i.imgur.com/5wXsPB3.jpg
And it's not the first time she was confused with someone else:
https://i.imgur.com/U2UMzSi.jpg
Or with Silver Sable:
https://i.imgur.com/WK29IK2.jpg
https://i.imgur.com/Gdv8no6.jpg
Maybe she was pissed because it happened again
The Black Widow one is from Spectacular#112, Silver Sable from Spectacular#113
Also, the justification used for her to defeat Xander was pure bullshit, specialy since magic is what made her lose the bad luck powers once, if anything, her powers should have a weird effect on Wanda's power due to their similarity (And even so, not completely counter it like it happened here), felt pretty asspull lol.