The MARVEL NOW! era was definitely better than the last two we've seen. Bendis started out pretty strong but as you said, his stories didn't seem to have an endgame. I didn't read anything out of ANAD, because I was expecting all new, all different and just a bunch of corporate synergy nonsense pretending to be a comic book. To be honest, they had potential to explore some interesting stories using the conflict with the Inhumans and the fallout of the 6-month gap, but they just spun their wheels for months only using the simplist of ideas for stories. I agree ResurrXion is better than ANAD, but not notably so. Still have a lot of lingering tropes and uninteresting stories being told by uninspired writers. Bunn is probably the best ongoing writer, but the cast(s) he's using is repelent (the O5 shouldn't have stayed past the NOW! era). Marvel should have had him writing a main title (I know he had Magneto in NOW!) during NOW! or ANAD, not trying to work with the aftermath.
The only X-Men books I'm currently reading are Red and R&G; one of them is done and the other is just barely keeping my attention (who thought it was ok to use 9-characters, two of them being Wolverine off-shoots?). Giving Domino a try but I'm dont see much else. Astonishing looks interesting, but I'm not jumping onboard until I hear more about the premise. Super disappointed in Legion, Gold is a characterization-mess and Blue... the O5 are (were?) there, hard pass. Not to mention two more Wolverine off-shoot characters?!