Let's be fair here. There's nothing wrong with him not liking Marvel movies. Many don't.
The problem is when he starts making absolute statements and comes off like an arbiter of quality.
Gatekeeping is one sure way to piss me off.
For the sake of realism Wakanda should be more like certain places in California...
https://www.forbes.com/sites/adamand.../#5178bc205ea5
Wakanda.
All of the most important elders had gathered to discuss a troubling and growing issue in Wakanda.
King T'challa: "I called this emergency meeting to..."
The king was distracted as Lord M'baku began to strain at the face and shift his hips uncomfortably.
King T'challa: "Oh no... Not you too!"
Lord M'baku: "I'm sorry my king... But I have to go badly!"
As Lord M'baku relieved himself soiling his white gorilla fur with the opposite color the elders begun to stand up and back away disgusted.
King T'challa: "SHURI!!!"
Princess Shuri: "I'm sorry brother I have not found the cure yet but I am titling this sickness as The Poop Flu."
Just then random elders begun to follow the actions of Lord M'baku making there throne room all but uninhabitable.
Princess Shuri: "I will manufacture more vibranium laced toilet paper to tackle this national disaster."
King T'challa: "First rape camps and now this... I mean who writes this stuff!"
Princess Shuri: "So much for a black utopia!"
Terry Gilliam: "FREAKIN-A, my boots are ruined utter BOOLSHET... Somebody should make a poop map!"
Let's see if someone writes this type of problem in Asgard or Latveria!
Carry on... But mind where you step though!
Get Hectic!
Lots of things I don't find plausible in comic books, from Superman moving planets to the Green Goblin becoming top cop in the US after Secret Invasion. ANd I can like it or dislike it, but the point being once it shows up in print it's canon regardless of what I happen to think. As long as the editors at marvel feel something is plausible, it becomes canon... I sadly don't get a vote. I've long ago made peace with the fact that things in fiction happen which I at times won't find plausible. That won't necessarily stop me from complaining about it on the internet if it bothers me enough... but I still accept it as canon until it's retconned.
So in a nutshell, in much the same way he thinks he can write off something that made black kids (and even black adults) stand up with their backs a little straighter, we can write him off as another out-of-touch, angry, bitter jerk. Not so different from a lot of so-called comics fans, except he has influence and reach that those same so-called fans don't.
The spider is always on the hunt.
I'd say he's more like "literary fiction" fans, who believe that they KNOW what quality is, and the "hoi polloi" must listen.
You know, the same ones that fawned over Messr. Coates for his polemic about the poor treatment of black life while he was living in Paris and visiting a personal trainer.
That's a very good point, and actually makes it even worse, come to think of it. He's not just another angry, bitter, out-of-touch jerk . . . he's an angry, bitter, out-of-touch elitist jerk, and frankly, if there's anything that pisses me off in this world, it's an elitist high on his (or her) sense of superiority to everyone else.
The spider is always on the hunt.
Terry Gilliam: "Some of my best friends are black... My personal chef, gardener and chauffeur are all black I love me some negro people!"
Get Hectic!
You say Wakanda is fictional in one sentence then will try and defend stuff by saying "in the real world this happens". You can't have both. Either its fictional and you treat it as such or it's based in realism. You can't pick and choose when convenient to your argument, especially when the history and franchise has established it to be a certain way. You need Logic and rules even in fiction to establish cohension and continuity and for it to make sense