Originally Posted by
Majesty
The main point of their relationship is their understanding of one another which the arc just created, and it wasn't something that was forced, it was learned through time. The kind of time that 'wasn't' taken before on the deeper level (due to bad writing but again, it's 'canon'.)
But the understanding that T'Challa and Ororo have of one another now, and the awakening she essentially had with things of Wakanda to the point she understands and cherishes it in ways she never had before. T'Challa's happiness at Ororo truly understanding where he comes from now, was as fulfilling as Ororo's happiness at T'Challa understanding her.
They are both on the same page now, and it took time, effort and growth from the both of them to get there. Those are the kinds of things a healthy and supportive relationship entails, and that arc set so much in stone as far as they are concerned going forward, that their relationship would/will be/is a healthy, understanding one, where they both had to grow as characters to get the fullest and deepest appreciation out of.
Not every comic relationship has to be toxic, and not every relationship has to be "They're in love, till they're not" in a soap opera way.
Seeing two people grow both together the first time, as well as apart, and then watching them continue to grow, willingly the second time around and with each other is the kind of thing that cements a special kind of relationship.
This is comic books, where there's so many pairings pined for that would otherwise be unhealthy or obsessive. It's very nice to see T'Challa and Ororo's relationship grow as it has, and more importantly it's very nice to see the kind of time, and effort put into righting the wrongs of past bad writing expenditures. So while we can all agree that both characters had to be severely written out of character just to break them up.. we can also agree that what's been done with this recent arc instead of running from all that is acknowledging it.
Instead of going "Let's act like it didn't happen, cause love.." they are going with "Yes, it happened, here's how the both of them have grown since then, here's where Ororo still stands, but here is where she is now at the end of the story, here is where they both connect now, and this is why their relationship will be more fulfilled, understanding, supportive, and uninterrupted from this point forward."
That... is a breath of fresh air, not just in relationship story telling, but story telling in general.
So often in comic books we see similar arcs that make us see the true natural chemistry and connection between characters and we wonder why the comics never take it a step forward with them. (one of my personal favorites being X-23 and Jubilee's storyarc together). But when you get that kind of character development, growth, chemistry, and understanding between two characters, you wonder why it never moves forward or why their characters get "reset" at some point as if the previous stories never happened.
This is why I adore what they did with T'Challa and Ororo in this story arc. They aren't making it 'disappear'. They're saying 'it happened(bad writing or not). But here is how they both have grown.
I would give anything, to have that kind of continuance given to more comic characters, where past stories aren't used use as a passing sentence that has no relevance on the story but was never built upon at any point aside from when it was mentioned the first time, to the time it gets mentioned again.
I would give anything for X-23 to actually advance as a character instead of reset back to Square 1 each and every time no matter how much growth she's had in how many stories she was suppposed to have grown from (again, her story with Jubilee should have changed her character going forward given everything she learned). It did for about 3 issues, then went back to square one. THAT is what we're used to in comics nowadays.
So for T'Challa and Ororo to get this kind of care, and this kind of advancement, I will say again...
It... is a breath of fresh air, not just in relationship story telling, but story telling in general.